Love is like.....

Love is like a double edged sword, there's the "good love" and the "bad love"....

The "Good love" is the kind of love that everyone wants to be in or experience. 

The "Good love" is where everything is perfect or almost perfect and everything is going right in the relationship.

The "Good love" is where there is compromise, trust, honesty, and communication within the relationship.

The "Bad love" is the kind of love that people dread to be in or where their relationship is at.

The "Bad love" is where there is consistent fights, battles, no communication, trust, compromise, honesty in the relationship.

The "Bad love" is the kind of love that kill and destroy relationships in a heartbeat or in a blink of an eye.

I have already experienced one kind of love, when am I going to experience the other kind of love??

Being In Love.......

Being in love is like an infectious disease,
its the kind of thing that you can't get rid of
or find a cure to it. It consumes every part of you body like
blood flowing through veins or being on fire. I hope this feeling of 
being in love never goes away....

Relationship Stages....

There are 3 stages in a Relationship...

Stage 1: Courting Stage
           Both parties in the relationship are doing the courting meaning the man and the woman are dating each other and not just the man taking out the woman but the woman should be taking out the man as well.

Stage 2: Getting To Know Each Other Stage
           In this stage, the man and the woman in the relationship are getting to know each other better, finding out their likes and dislikes, anything personal to get know more about your partner.

Stage 3: Commitment Stage
           In this final stage, the man and woman take the final step in their relationship, meaning marriage, having a family, etc.



 

"Love Bug"

When will this "love bug" bite me again? Im really not enjoying being single, sorry to say it but its so true. I have been single for far too long and its gotta change and soon. I want to find that special someone that I can have a meaningful and successful relationship, this particular person may very well be my life partner. Its just not fun anymore going to the movies, park, mall, a picnic alone....

Why me? Why me?

Na only me no get bobo to talk for phone or even get text sef... smh

written: Tues. Nov. 16@7:04pm
sorry couldn't get the official video :(

Older Loves and/or Lover

Why do men over the age of 40 like talk and/or have relations with younger woman? That is past the 'friendship level /stage'. I cant how many times that men over 40 years old who just love to have conversations and/or relations with me. It just scares the heck out me but then I am a little bit flattered that a man over 40 years old wants to have a relations besides on a 'friendship level'... I wish I could get an exclusive inside look into a man over 40 and what causes him to talk to a younger woman and to even thing or even consider having anything to do with her besides on a 'friendship level' Maybe older men over 40 are just sooo Obsessed....

I just don't know, hopefully some of my readers of my blog could answer this question for me..... Smh, wonders shall never end...

A Breaking Point.......

"Every Woman has Breaking Points......" I wonder what kind of Breaking Points does a woman have and go through every day.....



Distance kept us apart and is even tearing us apart as a couple,why?
I thought that I was always on his mind but I guess I wasnt while he was always on my mind.
I was once in love but now I fell in and out, in and out of love.
I  thought we were going to be together forever BUT again I thought wrong.
There was one magic and fireworks within our relationship BUT then again all of the magic and fire has died.
He was my FIRST love, BUT he wont be my last love.
I know I will be able to find love again.

He was once in my heart and now he fell out of it.
I thought I was his all and all BUT, yet again I guess I wasn't and had other plans on the side.

Did He truly LOVE me or was he just playing with my emotions??
Was he in LOVE with at all or did he just fell out of LOVE???
Was I his sexual pleasure or his LOVE?
Why me? Why me?

Well what could have been.... Only God knows and Time can only tell.
The "Love Bug" will bite me again BUT I just have to wait and see...

written Sat. Aug 22@12:27am